Indian households have become very difficult for the homemakers as husbands have stopped listening to their wives or talking about it outside. This has happened after Aamir Khan believing in his wife Kiran Rao and talking about it in public. The way Aamir was almost sent out of India by the Indians and the way people have started demanding him to actually go out of India has showed the way to these husbands.
This situation has created unnecessary dismay among Indian housewives. So far the husbands used to listen to them in the fear of getting false cases like 498a etc. But after Aamir Khan debacle these men suffer from severe anxiety of being thrown out of the country simply for listening to what their wife says in private.
Take for instance, Gopal (name changed), 29 from Jabalpur. His wife has asked him to take her to her maika (mother’s house) two days back. Normally Gopal used to comply with such unexpected requests without even a second thought. His wife Poornima going away used to bring good times for him. He could get much needed freedom from her routine and insensitive bak-bak in home. But he is not feeling confident that this time listening to his wife will do any good to him. Poornima, however is unaware of Aamir Khan incident and thinks that her husband fears that this time she will surely file some false cases if she ever goes to her parents’ house. She is not able to convince her husband that she is not going to file false cases now but going only to see her parents.
For 35 year old Amrinder, the issue is different. He has a long standing dream of settling to Canada in someone else’s expense. So for him, he thinks it is a good opportunity to settle abroad by saying the same thing as Aamir did, and settling in Canada in travel expenses paid trip by India. He also came to know from this tweet that Air-India has started a special tolerant one way fares out of India, too.-
Now Amrinder and people like him has a good reason to talk about their wife in public so Indians send them out in taxpayer’s money.
But the problem here is different. For the husbands like Amrinder, the countries proposed as their exile destinations are all troubled or poor countries like Somalia, Syria, Iraq etc. They were expecting that by raging a debate on tolerance and checking India’s tolerance level they would get free exile into better countries like Canada.
Feminists however, agree with Aamir that India’s tolerance level has indeed gone down. They were referring to increased intolerance to their demands at Indian homes by a new breed of intolerant generation called MRAs. Until 2005, they didn’t struggled for bringing laws like Domestic Violence Act. But afterwards all their attempts went in vain. They wanted to bring laws like Salary to Wife from husband, IRBM and then Marital Rape and in cases they found steep challenge from MRAs. Their stunts with Rohtak Sisters and Jasleen Kaur also failed miserably. Their latest stunts with 3 year old kid’s rape in a Bangalore school in 2014 or 28 day old baby’s rape in Bulandshar, UP all fell flat. Now these intolerant Indians start talking about false rape cases and punishment of mothers for every such feminist attempt to show kids’ rape.
Earlier these lies could be spread easily with men equally taking part in these demonstrations and making each lie spread well. But nowadays with some intolerant MRAs coming in between feminists and their lies, the relationship dynamics in Indian families have changed. This intolerant breed of Indian men known as MRAs are becoming real headache for Indian society. Everyone wonders if Indian men become so much intolerant to their wives’ demands, then what will be the future of Indian families?